Friday, November 13, 2009

My Dash

My Dash

I read of a man who stood to speak at the funeral of a friend.
He referred to the dates on her tombstone, from the beginning
to the end. He noted that first came her date of birth and spoke
the following date with tears, But he said what mattered most of
all was the dash between those years.

For that dash represents all the time that she spent alive on earth...
And now only those who loved her know what that little line is worth.
For it matters not how much we own; the cars, the house, the cash,
What matters is how we live and love and how we spend our dash.

So think about this long and hard.... are there things you'd like
to change? For you never know how much time is left, that can
still be rearranged.

If we could slow down enough to consider what's true and real,
And always try to understand the way other people feel
And be less quick to anger, and show appreciation more
And love the people in our lives like we've never loved before.

If we treat each other with respect, and more often wear a smile.
Remembering that this special dash might only last a little while.
So, when your eulogy's being read with your life's actions to rehash.....
Would you be proud of the things they say about how you spent your dash.

....I'm glad you are in My Dash.

Author Unknown

In Honor and Memory of Lori Wantz

I was thankful to be able to attend our dear friends Memorial service this past week. Lori was very loved. I just had to put a few pics on my Blog in Memory of her. She always said, it was like we were talking to each other, when she could read my blog. I love you Lori, Thanks for being in My Dash.


Lori, Denise (Gulliver) and Greg at KMBC.

Lori and Greg, graduation day at KMBC.

Three of my favorite fellows....Jason, Greg and Matthew, at two weeks of age. OK, you crazy men, get my baby out of that tree! ;-)